nekoman666 - I know how grateful you are with your fellow neighbors. I have my fair share of them here also. I won't mention names here but I am so gratified and thankful when I need the help for a building, gold, or other needs in the game that I ask my fellow friends or neighbors kindly if they have the needed materials to send an IT train my way. If not and this happens at times then I try it another way.
If you lost friends or neighbors in the game because of Facebook it is because the Facebook users may have violated the Facebook Community Rules. My Facebook account was temporarily locked out because of Facebook's suspicion that I broke the community standards. I did wait a few days and got back onto Facebook.
A suggestion for the folks here - use two ways to get into the game. One is Facebook. The other is an e-mail client and password. This way if you want to see more neighbors and friends who can interact with you then you can go that way. However, if you are looking for posts from Facebook to be added to your stockpile logging through the Portal or Portal links will work. However if the player posts it from Facebook then you can not claim that specific item and I am figuring gem posts for completing a contractor then you manage without that player's post.
I have been playing the game since May, 2019 and am having a blast with my friends and fellow neighbors.